Posted by: radhika on: May 1, 2009
I try to picture a girl
Through a looking glass
See her as a carbon atom
See her eyes and stare back at them
See that girl As her own new world
Though a home is on the surface,
she is still a universe Glory God,
oh God is peeking through the blinds
Are we all here standing naked
Taking guesses at the actual date and time
Oh my,
justifying reasons
why Is an absolutely insane resolution
to live by Live high
Live mighty Live righteously
Takin it easy Live high, live mighty
Live righteously
Try to picture the man
To always have an open hand
See him as a giving tree
See him as matter
Matter fact he’s not a beast
No not the devil either
Always a good deed doer
And it’s laughter that we’re makin after all
The call of the wild is still an ordination why
And the order of the permeates All our politics are too late
Oh my, the congregation in my mind
Is this assembly singing gratitude
Practicing their loving for you
Just take it easy And celebrate the malleable reality
Nothing is ever as it seems
This life is but a dream
Posted by: radhika on: March 16, 2009
WIFE VS. HUSBAND
A couple drove down a country road for several miles, not saying a word.
An earlier discussion had led to an argument and neither of them wanted to concede their position. As they passed a barnyard of mules, goats, and pigs, the husband asked sarcastically, ‘Relatives of yours?’
‘Yep,’ the wife replied, ‘in-laws.’
W O R D S
A husband read an article to his wife about how many words women use a day…
30,000 to a man’s 15,000….
The wife replied, ‘The reason has to be because we have to repeat everything to men…..
The husband then turned to his wife and asked, ‘What?’
CREATION
A man said to his wife one day, ‘I don’t know how you can be so stupid and so beautiful all at the same time.’ The wife responded, ‘Allow me to explain . God made me beautiful so you would be attracted to me;
God made me stupid so I would be attracted to you!’
The Silent Treatment
A man and his wife were having some problems at home and were giving each other the silent treatment. Suddenly, the man realized that the next day, he would need his wife to wake him at 5:00 AM for an early morning business flight. Not wanting to be the first to break the silence (and LOSE), he wrote on a piece of paper, ‘Please wake me at 5:00 AM.’ He left it where he knew she would find it. The next morning, the man woke up, only to discover it was 9:00 AM and he had missed his flight. Furious, he was about to go and see why his wife hadn’t wakened him, when he noticed a piece of paper by the bed. The paper said, ‘It is 5:00 AM. Wake up.’
Men are not equipped for these kinds of contests.
God may have created man before woman, but there is always a rough draft before the masterpiece.
Posted by: radhika on: February 16, 2009
Health:
1. Drink plenty of water.
2. Eat breakfast like a king, lunch like a prince and dinner like a beggar.
3. Eat more foods that grow on trees and plants and eat less food that is manufactured in plants.
4. Live with the 3 E’s — Energy, Enthusiasm, and Empathy.
5. Make time to practice meditation, yoga, and prayer.
6. Play more games.
7. Read more books than you did in 2008.
8. Sit in silence for at least 10 minutes each day.
9. Sleep for 7 hours.
10. Take a 10-30 minutes walk every day. And while you walk, smile.
Personality:
11. Don’t compare your life to others’.
You have no idea what their journey is all about.
12. Don’t have negative thoughts or things you cannot control.
Instead invest your energy in the positive present moment.
13. Don’t over do. Keep your limits.
14. Don’t take yourself so seriously. No one else does.
15. Don’t waste your precious energy on gossip.
16. Dream more while you are awake.
17. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.
18. Forget issues of the past.
Don’t remind your partner with his/her mistakes of the past.
That will ruin your present happiness.
19. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. Don’t hate others.
20. Make peace with your past so it won’t spoil the present.
21. No one is in charge of your happiness except you.
22. Realize that life is a school and you are here to learn.
Problems are simply part of the curriculum that appear and
fade away like algebra class but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime.
23. Smile and laugh more.
24. You don’t have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.
Society:
25. Call your family often.
26. Each day give something good to others.
27. Forgive everyone for everything.
28. Spend time with people over the age of 70 & under the age of 6.
29. Try to make at least three people smile each day.
30. What other people think of you is none of your business.
31. Your job won’t take care of you when you are sick.
Your friends will. Stay in touch.
Life:
32. Do the right thing!
33. Get rid of anything that isn’t useful, beautiful or joyful.
34. GOD heals everything.
35. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.
36. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.
37. The best is yet to come.
38. When you awake alive in the morning, thank GOD for it.
39. Your Inner most is always happy. So, be happy.
Posted by: radhika on: January 24, 2009
artikel bagus ni ktemu waktu browsing…
Para ilmuwan menemukan bahwa kenikmatan bercinta bagi perempuan punya kaitan langsung dengan harta pasangannya. Seperti dikutip Sunday Times, para ilmuwan itu menemukan bahwa makin kaya seorang pria maka pasangannya makin sering mencapai orgasme. “Kekerapan orgasme perempuan meningkat seiring pendapatan pasangannya,” kata Dr Thomas Pollet, psikolog dari Newcastle University. Pollet, yang melakukan penelitian, yakin bahwa kecenderungan itu adalah suatu “adaptasi evolusioner” yang sudah ada pada perempuan. Kecenderungan itu membuat mereka menyeleksi laki-laki berdasarkan mutu. Studi tersebut meyakini bahwa perempuan sudah terprogram untuk menjadi “mata duitan”.
Temuan itu juga cocok dengan penelitian psikologi evolusioner yang memperkirakan bahwa perempuan maupun laki-laki dipengaruhi secara genetik untuk bersikap “tanpa ragu-ragu” mengeksploitasi satu sama lain guna kelangsungan gen mereka.
Orgasme perempuan jadi fokus penelitian sebab tidak terkait dengan kehamilan.
Pollet dan rekannya, Daniel Nettle, yakin bahwa orgasme perempuan adalah adaptasi evolusioner yang menyebabkan perempuan memilih dan mempertahankan pasangan yang bermutu bagus.
Pollet dan Nettle menguji pemikiran mereka dengan menggunakan data dari studi-studi terbesar tentang gaya hidup.
Survay Kesehatan dan Kehidupan Keluarga China mewawancara sekitar lima ribu orang dari seluruh pelosok China mengenai kehidupan pribadi termasuk pertanyaan mengenai seks, pendapatan dan faktor-faktor lainnya.
Dari jumlah tersebut diambil data 1.534 perempuan dan pasangannya sebagai dasar penelitian.
Sebanyak 121 perempuan ternyata selalu orgasme jika berhubungan sedangkan 408 lainnya masuk kategori “sering”.
Sebanyak 762 lainnya masuk kategori “kadang-kadang” dan 243 sisanya termasuk dalam golongan “jarang” dan “tidak pernah”. Data itu ternyata mirip dengan yang ada di negara-negara barat.
Tentu saja ada banyak faktor yang membuat seorang perempuan tergolong kategori tersebut, namun Pollet mengatakan uang adalah penentu utama.
“Bertambahnya pemasukan suami punya dampak positif yang tinggi terhadap kekerapan orgasme perempuan. Jika laki-laki makin menggairahkan, perempuan makin sering orgasme.”
Hal ini tidak hanya pada perempuan di China tetapi juga di Jerman dan Amerika Serikat. Uang tampaknya sangat penting.
David Buss, profesor psikologi di University of Texas, Austin, lewat bukunya “The Evolution of Desire” menyakini bahwa orgasme perempuan “bisa untuk mempererat ikatan dengan laki-laki bermutu tinggi serta bisa menjadi tanda bahwa perempuan sangat puas secara seksual dan tidak mau mencari pria lain,” katanya.
“Orgasme itu seolah berkata ’saya sangat setia, jadi engkau harus tanam investasi pada saya dan anak-anak’.”
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Posted by: radhika on: January 23, 2009
JANUARY
* Ambitious and serious
* Loves to teach and be taught
* Always looking at people’s flaws and weaknesses
* Likes to criticize
* Hardworking and productive
* Smart, neat and organized
* Sensitive and has deep thoughts
* Knows how to make others happy
* Quiet unless excited or tensed
* Rather reserved
* Highly attentive
* Resistant to illnesses but prone to colds
* Romantic but has difficulties expressing love
* Loves children
* Likes to point out people’s mistakes
* Loyal
* Needs to improve social abilities
* Easily jealous
FEBRUARY
* Abstract thoughts
* Loves reality and abstract
* Intelligent and clever
* Changing personality
* Temperamental
* Quiet, shy and humble
* Low self esteem
* Honest and loyal
* Determined to reach goals
* Loves freedom
* Rebellious when restricted
* Loves aggressiveness
* Too sensitive and easily hurt
* Showing anger easily
* Dislike unnecessary things
* Loves making friends but rarely shows it
* Daring and stubborn
* Ambitious
* Realizing dreams and hopes
* Sharp
* Loves entertainment and leisure
* Romantic on the inside not outside
* Superstitious and ludicrous
* Spendthrift
* Learns to show emotions
MARCH
* Attractive personality
* Affectionate
* Shy and reserved
* Secretive
* Naturally honest, generous and sympathetic
* Loves peace and serenity
* Sensitive to others
* Loves to serve others
* Not easily angered
* Trustworthy
* Appreciative and returns kindness
* Observant and assess others
* Revengeful
* Loves to dream and fantasize
* Loves traveling
* Loves attention
* Loves home decors
* Musically talented
* Loves special things
* Moody
APRIL
* Active and dynamic
* Decisive and hasteful but tends to regret
* Attractive and affectionate to oneself
* Strong mentality
* Loves attention
* Diplomatic
* Consoling
* Friendly and solves people’s problems
* Brave and fearless
* Adventurous
* Loving and caring
* Suave and generous
* Emotional
* Revengeful
* Aggressive
* Hasty
* Good memory
* Moving
* Motivate oneself and the others
* Sickness usually of the head and chest
* Easily get too jealous
MAY
* Stubborn and hard-hearted
* Strong-willed and highly motivated
* Sharp thoughts
* Easily angered
* Attracts others and loves attention
* Deep feelings
* Beautiful physically and mentally
* Firm standpoint
* Easily influenced
* Needs no motivation
* Easily consoled
* Systematic (left brain)
* Loves to dream
* Strong clairvoyance
* Understanding
* Sickness usually in the ear and neck
* Good imagination
* Good debating skills
* Good physical
* Weak breathing
* Loves literature and the arts
* Loves traveling
* Dislike being at home
* Restless
* Hardworking
* High spirited
* Spendthrift
JUNE
* Thinks far with vision
* Easily influenced by kindness
* Polite and soft-spoken
* Having lots of ideas
* Sensitive
* Active mind
* Hesitating
* Tends to delay
* Choosy and always wants the best
* Temperamental
* Funny and humorous
* Loves to joke
* Good debating skills
* Talkative
* Daydreamer
* Friendly
* Knows how to make friends
* Abiding
* Able to show character
* Easily hurt
* Prone to getting colds
* Loves to dress up
* Easily bored
* Fussy
* Seldom show emotions
* Takes time to recover when hurt
* Brand conscious
* Executive
* Stubborn
* Those who loves me are enemies
* Those who hates me are friends
JULY
* Fun to be with
* Secretive
* Difficult to fathom and to be understood
* Quiet unless excited or tensed
* Takes pride in oneself
* Has reputation
* Attractive and affectionate to oneself
* Easily consoled
* Very Honest
* Concern about people’s feelings
* Tactful
* Friendly
* Approachable
* Very emotional
* Passionate kisser
* Temperamental and unpredictable
* Moody and easily hurt
* Witty and sarky
* Sentimental
* Not revengeful
* Forgiving but never forgets
* Dislike nonsensical and unnecessary things
* Guides others physically and mentally
* Sensitive and forms impressions carefully
* Caring and loving
* Treats others equally
* Strong sense of sympathy
* Wary and sharp
* Judge people through observations
* Hardworking
AUGUST
* Loves to joke
* Attractive
* Suave and caring
* Brave and fearless
* Firm and has leadership qualities
* Knows how to console others
* Too generous and egoistic
* Takes high pride of oneself
* Thirsty for praises
* Extraordinary spirit
* Easily angered
* Angry when provoked
* Easily jealous
* Observant
* Careful and cautious
* Thinks quickly
* Independent thoughts
* Loves to lead and to be led
* Loves to dream
* Talented in the arts, music and defense
* Sensitive but not petty
* Poor resistance against illnesses
* Learns to relax
* Hasty and rushy
* Romantic
* Loving and caring
* Loves to make friends
SEPTEMBER
* Suave and compromising
* Careful, cautious and organized
* Likes to point out people’s mistakes
* Likes to criticize
* Quiet but able to talk well
* Calm and cool
* Kind and sympathetic
* Concerned and detailed
* Trustworthy, loyal and honest
* Does work well
* Sensitive
* Thinking
* Good memory
* Clever and knowledgeable
* Loves to look for information
* Must control oneself when criticizing
* Able to motivate oneself
* Understanding
* Secretive
* Loves sports, leisure and traveling
* Hardly shows emotions
* Tends to bottle up feelings
* Choosy especially in relationships
* Loves wide things
* Systematic
OCTOBER
* Loves to chat
* Loves those who loves him
* Loves to takes things at the centre
* Attractive and suave
* Inner and physical beauty
* Does not lie or pretend
* Sympathetic
* Treats friends importantly
* Always making friends
* Easily hurt but recovers easily
* Bad tempered
* Selfish
* Seldom helps unless asked
* Daydreamer
* Very opinionated
* Does not care of what others think
* Emotional
* Decisive
* Strong clairvoyance
* Loves to travel, the arts and literature
* Soft-spoken, loving and caring
* Romantic
* Touchy and easily jealous
* Concerned
* Loves outdoors
* Just and fair
* Spendthrift and easily influenced
* Easily lose confidence
NOVEMBER
* Has a lot of ideas
* Difficult to fathom
* Thinks forward
* Unique and brilliant
* Extraordinary ideas
* Sharp thinking
* Fine and strong clairvoyance
* Can become good doctors
* Careful and cautious
* Dynamic in personality
* Secretive
* Inquisitive
* Knows how to dig secrets
* Always thinking
* Less talkative but amiable
* Brave and generous
* Patient
* Stubborn and hard-hearted
* If there is a will, there is a way
* Determined
* Never give up
* Hardly become angry unless provoked
* Loves to be alone
* Thinks differently from others
* Sharp-minded
* Motivates oneself
* Does not appreciates praises
* High-spirited
* Well-built and tough
* Deep love
DECEMBER
* Loyal and generous
* Patriotic
* Active in games and interactions
* Impatient and hasty
* Ambitious
* Influential in organizations
* Fun to be with
* Loves to socialize
* Loves praises
* Loves attention
* Loves to be loved
* Honest and trustworthy
* Not pretending
* Short tempered
* Changing personality
* Not egoistic
* Takes high pride in oneself
* Hates restrictions
* Loves to joke
* Good sense of humor
* Logical
Posted by: radhika on: January 11, 2009
Nenjukkul paeithidum maamazhai
Neerukkul mulkidum thaamarai
Sarrendru maaruthu vaanizhaimi
Pennae un mel pizhai… hoohoo
Nillaamal veesidum peralai
Nenjukkul ninthidum tharaghai
Ponvannam sudiya kaarighai
Pennae nee kaanchanai
Hoo Shanthi Shanthi..Hoo Shanthi
En uyirai uyirai nee yenthi
Yehn sendraai sendraai ennai thaandi
Eni nee than enthan anthaathi
Nenjukkul paeithidum maamazhai
Neerukkul mulkidum thaamarai
Sarrendru maaruthu vaanizhai
Pennae un mel pizhai
Yetho ondru ennai irkka
Mookkin nooni marmam serkka
Kalla thanam yethum illa, punnagaiyo bogham illa
Nee nindra idam endraal, kilai yeri poghatho?
Nee sellum vazhiyellam, pani katti aaghatho?
Ennodu vaa, veedu varaikkum
En veetai paar, ennai pidikkum
Ival yaaro yaaro theriyaathae
Ival pinnal nenjai poghathae
Iru pooiyo maeiyo theriyaathae
Ival pinnal nenjai poghathae… Poghaathae
Nenjukkul paeithidum maamazhai
Neerukkul mulkidum thaamarai
Sarrendru maaruthu vaanizhai
Pennae un mel pizhai… hoohoo
Nillaamal veesidum peralai
Nenjukkul ninthidum tharaghai
Ponvannam sudiya kaarighai
Pennae nee kaanchanai…
Thukkangalai thukki sendraai F : thukki sendraai
Yekkangali thuvi sendraai,
Unnai thaandi poghum pothu F : poghum pothu
Veesum kaatrin veechuvaen
Nillendru nee sonnaal
En kaalam nagarathae
Nee sudum poovellam
Oru pothum uthiraathae
Kaathal yenae kekkavillai
Kekkathathu kaathil illai!
En jeevan jeevan neethanae
Ennathonrum neram idhu thaanae
Nee illai illai endraalae…
En nenjam nenjam thaanghathae…
F :
Nenjukkul paeithidum maamazhai
Neerukkul mulkidum thaamarai
Sarrendru maaruthu vaanizhai
Pennae un mel pizhai
M & F :
Nillaamal veesidum peralai
Nenjukkul ninthidum tharaghai
Ponvannam sudiya kaarighai
Pennae nee kaachchanai
Hoo Shanthi Shanthi..Hoo Shanthi
En uyirai uyirai nee yenthi
Yehn sendraai sendraai ennai thandi
Eni nee than enthan anthaathi
Posted by: radhika on: January 11, 2009
Hi Malini, I’m Krishnan, naan idha solliye aghonum
nee avalavo alaghu, inga evanum inda alagha oru..
ivalavu alagha partirika mattanga and I’m in love with you
Mundhinam partene partadum thotrene
Salladai kannagha, nenjamum ponnanathe
Ettanai naal agha unnai naan paaramal
Enga thaan poneno natkalum veenanathe
Vaanathil Nee vennila yeakkathil naan theaivathaa
Ippodhu ennodhu vandal enna
Oor parka ondraghe serndral enna
Ippodhu ennodhu vandal enna
Oor parka ondraghe serndral enna
Mundhinam partene partadum thotrene
Salladai kannagha, nenjamum ponnanathe
Ettana naal agha unnai naan paaramal
Engai thaan poneno natkalum veenanathe
Thula thottil unnai vaithu, migar seya ponnai vaitai
Thulaabaaram thoarkaatho per azhage
Mugam partum pesum unnai, mudhal kaadhal seindhum kannai
Annaikamal paaveno aaruyire
Oooh oru nilal pole, vidamal unnai thodervenadi
Pugal pole padamal patthu nagarvenadi
Vinaa nooru kanaavum nooru vidai solladi
Mundhinam partene partadum thotrene
Salladai kannagha, ullamum ponnanathe
Ittana naal agha unnai naan paaramal
Engai thaan poneno natkalum veenanathe
kadal neelam mangum nerum aalai vandu theendum thorum
Manam sendru moolgaatho eerathile
thalai saaike thoalum thantaai viral kottum pakkum vandai
Idal mattum ennum yen dhooratile
Pagal neram kanakal kanden urangamale
Uyirendu muraya kanden nerungamale
Unai endri eneke edhu edhirkaalame
Mundhinam partene partadum thotrene
Salladai kannagha, nenjamum ponnanathe
Ettanai naal agha unnai naan paaramal
Engai thaan poneno natkalum veenanathe
Vaanathil nee vennila yerkathil naan deivatha
Ippodhu ennodhu vandal enna
Oor parka ondraghe serndral enna
Ippodhu ennodhu vandal enna
Oor parka ondraghe serndral enna
Posted by: radhika on: January 2, 2009
kmaren tgl 29-30 dec kisara ngadain retreat dibedugul…tempatna bagus..n dingin bgt…seru banget kita pada konvoi motor gtu…trus kta sibuk biasa narsis narsis dulu poto sana sini..banyak tempat bagus buat foto-foto…trus kta main team building gtu ma anak2..wah seru bgt…abis tu kta belanja-belanja buat manggang malamna..sebelum manggang kita pada refleksi dulu..buat diri kita juga buat team kisara..ternyata sodara-sodara ku menobatkan aku menjadi relawan tergalak..hikz..hikz..
Selain itu masih banyak yang harus kisara lakukan ditaon 2009..mari bersama-sama kita wujudkan remaja sehat dan bertanggung jawab
viva remaja
viva kisara


Posted by: radhika on: December 13, 2008
Buat yang udah mengalami tinggal, berinteraksi, menjalin hubungan dua dunia (bukan dunia lain loh ya), adakah hal2 lain yang lebih prinsip?
Sambil belajar/introspeksi ……Lantas kita sendiri cenderung berpola di area mana?
Ga da salah, ga da bener. Cuma yang paling nyaman buat diri sendiri itu menentukan standar/value pribadi.
^_^
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Posted by: radhika on: December 12, 2008
